Ladies, mind your manners and find some class.

Ladies, and this does NOT include the two that follow this blog, but for the rest. Let's learn the rules and follow them. Act like a lady, PLEASE.

First, let's remember our roles in life, whether married or not. There are rules to go along with these roles and it's really very simple. Mind your manners, and when you're redirected on them, learn and go on.

Second, e-mail is a very personal form of communication when it's not for business. Now, let me start with, I FIRMLY believe men and women CANNOT be "friends." Let me caveat that; unless they are married and THAT's normal, acceptable. If you are outside of that married relationship, it ain't happenin'. Know what I mean? So, back to e-mail. Sometimes you have business between men and women. That should stay at a business e-mail not a home e-mail. Your toes is now over the line.

Third, just because you take aerobics or spinning with a married man, and you teach the class, does not give you license to e-mail him at home. In fact, it pisses his wife off. She's answered some of your e-mails and you just ain't getting the hint. Okay, let me offer you some advice. Go buy an alarm clock. An alarm clock? Why? WAKE UP!! The wife just isn't that into you. Moreover, she isn't into you starting to get into her husband. Now, all five toes and your foot are over the line and the wife is looking for her best steel toed Manolo's to stomp on your foot. Bluntly, your behavior choices are pissing her off.

Fourth, she calls you on this and tells you to stop and you cop an attitude? Step off!! Who the heck do you think you are? You have a husband and a child. Focus on them. Using e-mail just to say "Hi" like you were passing someone on the street doesn't wash. Don't tell the wife you are using e-mail like a teacher in a truly business sense. You're lying not only to the wife, but to yourself.

Ladies, ladies, ladies. We have to uphold and respect marriage. If you're crunching in on someone else's husband and you're called on it, have humility and apologize, don't resort to insults. Look at your own relationship and repair it. Apologize to her. You have embarrassed yourself AND your own family. It's all about you. If you have no class, find some. It's not that hard. Start with elevating and maintaining your self esteem. Then, elevate your own relationship.

That's about all for now. I have to go and polish my Manolo's. Had to use 'em yesterday.